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Friday, October 7, 2011

A SUMMARY OF MY NEPAL VOLUNTARY PLACEMENT

After being continuously working as an engineer in over the past 10 year, I had come to the decision to have a career break by end of 2010. Right after the Chinese New Year in February 2011, I set off for Nepal, one of the poorest and least developed countries in the world to participate in a four-month volunteering work.

Having done some studies, I had finally chosen Umbrella Foundation (UF), an Irish founded Kathmandu based Children home to be my placement for the voluntary assignment.

The UF is a small Independent None Government Organization (INGO) whereby its operations is basically support by the donation raised from all over the world.

Ten years of civil war in Nepal, which ended in 2008 had displaced more than tens of thousands of children. With countless children orphaned and even more trafficked and/or abandoned, UF was established with the goal to rescue destitute children and given them access to education and at the same time working on re-unify the misplace children to their family. There are currently seven children homes under the UF, sheltering over three hundreds children; of which six are in Kathmandu and another one is in Rasuwa, which located at the edge of The Himalaya range.

Upon arrival, I settled into the volunteer house which located within walking distance to the children homes. At here, I get to know other volunteers from all over the world such as Ireland, Germany, Canada and France.

My volunteering life began with a simple greeting “Namaste”(NOTE 1) . I was being introduced to 46 boys as their new sister (NOTE 2). My worries waned immediately when I was warmly welcomed with the innocent smiley faces of the children during out first met. Thereafter, I sat to have my first dal baht (NOTE 3) meal with the kids, learning to eat with hand by mixing the dal with the rice and the skill of putting it into my mouth.

My daily duties involve serving the morning dal baht at around 820am before the kids go to school and walked them to the school which is about 2 km away from the children homes. Volunteers will then gather back at the volunteer house to have our weekly meeting or to have a group discussion for the Saturday activities. Around 3pm, volunteers will again bring home the kids and help to serve them their tea and bread before they began their afternoon study session. Football, basket ball and frisbee are the most popular games for the kids in the evening. Dal bath will then be served at 530pm follow by an evening study session.

As Nepal rest day is on Saturday, we shall endevour to organize some activities on every rest day such as football match between houses, drawing or chess competition, treasure hunt, talent shows or sports day.

Apart from what had just mentioned, each of the volunteers are being assigned with different jobs. I was being assigned to update the kids’ background in the organization database which is of great help when come to reunifying the kids with their long lost family. I was also involved in the preparation of teaching material for school in Gurje, a remote village located north of Kathmandu whereby the UF is working closely to educate the locals. Two volunteers will travel to Gurje to conduct an English teaching lesson to the local school and at the same time promoting personal health and hygiene knowledge to the locals on weekly basis.

Whilst, my assignment with the UF has also enabled me to personally witness a few cases of family reunions. I still can recall vividly the emotional impulse and excitement between the ‘lost-and-found’ kids and their respective parents, moving all of us to tears.

In May 2011, UF opened a new home in Rasuwa. 60 kids were being sent back to their origin province in order to be closer to their families. 130km north of Kathmandu, deep down into the bottom of the Himalaya range, it took the kids 9 hours journey by bus to arrive at a small village name Syambubesi, which is a famous for the starting point for Lantang(NOTE 4) trekking.

Three weeks later, later, together with another volunteer, we set off to Syambubesi to visit the kids . Notwithstanding the beautiful scenery along the countryside, our journey was “incredibly terrifying”. The bus was overloaded with uncountable locals and their poulty such as roosters & goats. Some were even ‘sat’ on the bus roof! I can feel my heart beat jumping fast and i dare not to even look out the window as the road is to narrowed for the bus to go through, one inch away from the road is the canyon with few thousand meter depth in the Himalaya range. The bus wheels just couldn’t afford to slide more than one inch away from the ground

The visit to Rasuwa home was wonderful and I am delighted to find out that the kids adapted well to their new environment. The UF is working closely with the only school in the area in order to provide education for the new arrivals. Having been relocated closer to the kids’ origin village, I witnessed mothers carried baby on their back, walk at least 4 hours over the mountains to visit their long lost child. After a series of assessment, families which are affordable to bear their own kid are allow to bring home their children; else the children will continue staying with UF to received education.

In a blink of an eye, my four months of placement ended with a good mixture of laughter and tears. The bond between the kids and me has grown strong to an extent that words can not describe.

End of June 2011, when it was the time to wake up from this wonderful dream and head back to reality. I had a wonderful farewell party with the kids followed by the traditional Nepalese blessing ceremony whereby tikka(NOTE 5) and khata(NOTE 6) were presented.

Stepping out from the house holding my farewell cards from the kids, I turn around to see the kids gathering at the gate and the balcony waving good bye to me. I wave back strongly to them the one last time with my tears rolling out from my eyes. Whizzing through the small alley heading back to the volunteer house, accompany by millions of stars smiling back at me, I feel the satisfaction for what I had done for the pass four months. The memories with the kids will be kept deep down in the bottom of my heart as part of the most unique and unforgettable experience in my life.


Note:


1. Namaste is the most common greeting in Nepal. It has the same meaning as Hello or How are you.


2. The kids address a female volunteer as sister and a male volunteer as brother.


3. Dal bath is the basic food in nepal which consist of rice and dal and abit of curry vegetable. It is being served twice a day as breakfast and dinner.


4. Langtang is one of the most remote areas of Nepal. Bordering Tibet, the mountaneous Langtang National Park is known for its spectacular Himal Mountain Views, and is a popular trekking destination.


5. Tikka is a red powder to put on the forehead as a blessing.

6. Khata is a scarf to be given to someone who is leaving for a journey as a good luck and safe journey blessing.























Monday, April 11, 2011

玻璃杯&汤匙

上个星期五,我特地带了3 个星期天早上回去了Rasuwa  的孩子到Durba Square 一天游。 想让他们看看加德满都另一番面貌,好让他们可以记得他们在这里一些不同的画面。
孩子一早已经换好衣服,乖乖的在等出门。Pasang 还很有礼貌的把手洗干净,抹干了以后才来拖我的手。一个这么可爱懂事的孩子,无论他怎么做,我的心早就已经被他溶化了!
上了的士,孩子很礼貌的问我可不可以把 车窗搅下。 在我轻轻的点过头可许下,孩子才小心翼翼的把窗口搅下。 一阵凉风吹进,我不知道过些日子,孩子还会不会记得有这么的一天,但肯定的是 这一天必定会是我人生当中最值得怀念的其中一天。
到了目的地,孩子很小心的把车窗搅回原本的位置, 这么自律的举动让我感觉到他们的细心!
其实我们在Durba Square 上的活动 并没有什么特别值得纪念的, 大伙儿只不过是拍拍照,追追白鸽。
过后,我带了他们进入了餐厅,买了他们很想吃的雪糕给他们。每一个小孩得到一杯自己专属的雪糕。他们高兴得不得了!要知道这些住在一个拥有46 个小孩的大家庭里,有谁可以真正的拥有过属于自己的一杯雪糕呢?
当服务员送来三杯用玻璃杯装着的白开水时,孩子很小心翼翼的拿起杯子, 轻轻的和大家碰了碰杯,偷偷的笑了一下,然后才开始喝起来。与此同时,还是忍不住地互相的通过玻璃杯里的水而对望,想必是在取笑着对方因水中的折射而造成有趣的脸孔。 一个我们感觉平凡无奇的玻璃杯对尼泊尔的小孩来说可是无比的特别和有趣!因为大多数的尼泊尔人一生当中都只用铁杯子来盛水和茶!玻璃杯对于他们来讲已经是很奢华的惨剧。
我叫了一碟饺子给孩子吃。孩子轻轻的问我,“姐姐,等一下我们用手吃还是用汤匙吃?” 我告诉他们只要他们喜欢,他们可以选择用手或者用汤匙。 三个孩子异口同声地说了一声“我们要用汤匙!” 他们这个回答,让我顿时发现原来孩子觉得可以用汤匙吃东西是被看重的得对待。原来这些小小的心灵是那么的希望被尊重和拥有自己的Dignity (尊严有一点太重了,但是我找不到适当的字眼来代替)!!我赶快就服务生给我们送来汤匙, 孩子很兴奋的握着他们的汤匙他们的,津津有味的吃着鸡肉饺子。
一段小小的出门,三个小男生让我上了一堂人生课 (至少我是这样认为的)。 一些我们毫不起眼的事情,可以是对别的人有着莫大意义!只要大家细心一点的观察, 你也可以为周边的人带来快乐, 甚至是他们的尊严!
我希望,这不是我过分幻想的情形,至少我已经尝试着尽我所能的把事情做好!
回家的路上,孩子告诉我“Sister, I am very happy today! Thank you Sister!”
我使劲的忍住我那已经在眼眶里打转的眼泪回答他们“ Sister is happy if you are happy!”

Friday, April 8, 2011

The Thunderstorm Night in Gurje


The second night was a rough night in Gurje. Waking up by the thunderstorm, I peer at my watch which shows only 1.30am.
Heavy rain pound on the metal roof, creating a loud yet scary noise. Strong wind treated to blow away the roof and even the entire village. I start to imagine landslide might occur and swallow the entire valley. When the rain gets heavier, I felt it just falls right next to me as there are barely any sound proof on the that single layer of roof and the thins layer of stone wall.
Embrace myself more inside the sleeping bag, I try to falls back into sleep, telling myself to let it to the god as there are nothing much I can do at this moment.

Waking up in a peaceful and silent morning, hearing only the bird singing gracefully, everything seems to be in place and the whole village is still standing still fine.

Walking out from the health post, a clear view of Lantang Mt appears right in front of my eye. Thank you to the thunderstorm, which wash away the dust in the air and clear the sky, I manage to have a closer and clearer view of the magnificient Lantang Mt cover with snow.
I stroll down gentling towards the UF base camp to help preparing our dal bhat before leaving the heavenly place, Gurje.

Wednesday, March 9, 2011

A Peaceful night

It was yet another holiday on tuesday. I got exhausted by the kids trying to prepare the up coming Saturday parade and also the drawing competition. I really had enough for the 3 consecutive holidays in a week.
After the dal bhat, I return to my house. I try to finish my laundry in the rooftop before the power cut off at 8pm. Just at the rooftop while I m washing my cloths with my bare hand, I found myself this piece of tranquil land. Away from the crowded kitchen n living room which is now pack with volunteers. I think I just need some undisturbed moment for myself. I enjoy washing the cloths with the company of the stars n the new moon.
After my laundry, I decided to make myself a cup of tea n bring along my book to continue the night at rooftop. I enjoy looking up to the dazzling swanyabhu temple on the top of the hill while I m having a break from my book.

At 8 pm, I see the light went off for the whole area. I watch the stars, which previously over shined by the street lights start popping out from the dark sky. Soon the whole sky was a glitzy show of stars.
As I can no longer able to read my book in the dark unless I use my torch light to do so. I close my book and start enjoying the gentle cold breeze. On and off, I can hear the chanting from far and the dog barking.
This is really the peaceful moment that I had been long waited for both physically and mentally. I felt calm in my mind, the peacefulness that you will not be able to experience when u have too much to go on in your mind.

I start to practice meditation, the way my brother teaches me to. Of course I didn’t really go into the meditation stage, but I am glad that I am able to sit still and think free for a while. Trust me, the meditation method do helps me thro some sleepless night and it is a good way to calm yourself down in what so ever trouble you are going thro.
Sipping my cup of tea and I continue enjoying the night.......
This is a wonderful night for me :)

Sunday, February 27, 2011

玩具


这里的孩子没有奢侈的玩具。哪怕是一颗石头和一个泥洞也都可以让那几个年幼的男孩玩得不亦乐乎。
傍晚时分,大多数的孩子会集中在屋前的小空地踢球。 嗯,其实应该说是 泄了气的篮球。 听说他们之前已经踢坏了好几个足球,这一阵子都不可以分配到新的足球 所以只好踢篮球解瘾。幸好篮球比足球耐踢很多,暂且就让他们踢一踢,坏了以后再和这里的负责人商量一下,买一个新的给他们。

和孩子相处下来,渐渐发现他们都有很不一样的性格。有的由于英语讲的比较流利,所以比较有自信心,特别喜欢粘着义工们攀谈。有的就比较内向,不太喜欢和别人讲话。

一直告诉自己,不可以忽略了那些比较安静的小朋友, 要尽量的照顾到每一位,公平的对待他们。所以常常乘他们坐下来吃下午茶的时候,主动地走过去和他们谈天。

就在昨天当我分派完下午茶的时候,我发现一个大约6岁名叫Rampadu 的孩子自己一个人蹲在墙边很久。好奇下,我走了过去看看。 这个平时都比较自闭的孩子居然很兴奋的用他仅会的英语告诉我 那里有很多蚂蚁往洞里去, 里边一定有东西。我就告诉他那可能只是蚂蚁的窝,但是他居然可以很肯定的告诉我,蚂蚁的窝是在柚子树底下,现在那么多蚂蚁往这里走,里边一定有东西(我看他 想讲的是有蚂蚁的食物。 这个时候,我才发现原来这个孩子的洞察和分析能力很强。 而且也很有耐心(蹲在那里30 分钟就为了看蚂蚁!)和专注能力(因为其他的孩子都在哗哗啦啦的踢着球只有他一个人在看蚂蚁)。

我发现,只要用心的去看每一件事情,就算是一件微不足道的小事件, 也可以让你从中了解到每一个小朋友的个性, 借此 拉近大家的距离。
小男生喜欢玩纸牌,纸牌上的是一些摔角 明星,道理应该是比那一个摔角 明星较厉害 就谁赢吧?!



男生嘛!就是喜欢比谁比较大力! 搞到我的手臂恻恻地痛。。。当然,相片里那个金发美女不是我啦!
平日 孩子们玩得玩具,大多数都是就地取材的东西。
有用 塑胶圈做成的毽子, 可喜的是每当他们在数他们可以踢多少下的时候,他们是用英语来数的!

篮球也可以用来 当排球打!



小朋友争先恐后的要表演绳子 魔术给我看!

看蚂蚁的小孩

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Blackout Time

What is Loadsheding?
U tends to see this word everywhere in kathmandu.
It is a timetable given to the ppl here regarding the schedule of the power cut off for each day.
Due to the lack of rain in the winter, the hydro power is not sufficient to supply a 24/7 electricity to the kathamandu valley.
Therefore, the Loadsheding is plan to distribute the power.
I have to check the schedule everyday so that i can get my mobile and laptop charge up and to get enuf drinking water as the water filter will not work without a power supply.

After a 4 deg C shower on the first night on my arrival( the water heater was broken, but it is back to work now), I was shivering and padding my hair dry on the bed.
I watch the sky gets darker and darker from the window.
I have nothing to do except keep on padding dry my hair.
The only entertainment i had is to listen to the dog barking and some vehicle pass by.
No computer, no mobile phone and no TV.
N I do not need to worry about deadlines in work or any urgent task waiting to be done.
I feel calm and relax.
I experience the most peaceful moment in my life in a completely dark room, alone with 3 other empty beds.
I continue padding drying my hair for more then an hour, not that i need to but i just donn't have anything else to do.
That is how I spent my first blackout night, feeling calm and peaceful on my slightly hard wooden bed with my blanket around me. Thinking........

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Umbrella Got Talent

We are having a big show on this coming saturday, Umbrella got Talent Show!
The event is going to take place in a nearby hotel.
We had our weekly volunteer's meeting on Monday morning to discuss about the arrangement like how to walk the kids from individual houses, and how to decorate the stage and also the flow of the program.
It makes me feel like i am back to the high school or Uni time.
Each house is given 10 mins to perform their acts.
My Amadablam boys is going to perform 3 acts. 1 hiphop dance, 1 Nepali dance and 1 solo  singing.
I just listen to my boy's sings and believe me, he is really good!! 
I was amazed by how much talents the boys had in dancing and singing and i think the show is giving them  a very good opportunity and encouragement in performing.
I am so looking forward to see the rehearsal from my boys tomorrow evening.
Menwhile, I will be visiting another boys's house to check on their preparation of the Banner for the night. These are the teen boys house where their age round 14-18.
I am so excited for this coming saturdy and i m sure the kids will enjoy it too!

Meeting up with the kids

I was being assign to Amadablam House, whereby they are a mixture of young boys range from 4 to maybe 10 or 11.
My worry was gone immediately after i get to meet the kids. They are super friendly and active.
They loves to talk to peoples and ask alot of question!
I am so surprise that their english is very good, communication is totally not a problem!
Yesterday evening,It was my first time sitting together with them to have their dal bhat.
They are so well discipline (well...in somewhere they wasn't..) but when the time come, a few of them will arrange the cursion and a few elder one will take care the distribution of food. They form a line from the kitchen to the common room and passing the rice to one by one.
They will wait till everybody (almost) got their food then only start eating.
I am really impressed.
After eating, they will each wash their plate and one of the kid was being assign as the checker to check whether the plate is really clean b4 they allow to put it back to the shelve.
Ans then, it is the free time for them before they start their study time.
I follow the kids to see their rooms, they show me their collection of photos of the wrestler (which is kind of popular "sport" in Nepal unfortunately....) they also shown me some drawings which they drawn (some of them are really talented i must says).
 I didnt stay much longer after the kids starts their self study time as I am heading back to my volunteer's house as yesterday was one of the french girl's birthday. So we went out to a restaurant nearby to celebrate.
I tried some momos (dumpling filled with either chicken, or veg or buffalo meat... ) which is a typical common food in nepal.

Thursday, February 17, 2011

倒数三天

在这里和大家说声抱歉,结束了工作以后就忙着过年,一直都没有时间来这里和大家更新 一下情况。
先在这里祝大家元宵节快乐!
在这新年期间,一直忙着和 旧朋友见面。
席上不免谈到我的尼泊尔之行。
很开心得到很多正面的回响和鼓励,让我觉得原来我的朋友们都拥有一颗热忱的心。
很感谢大家对我的支持! 你们的祝福我都一一收到了!

离开出发的日子还有三天,不间断的一直有人问我心情如何。
(我觉得大家总对我这趟旅程特感兴趣!)
时间越来越接近,心里是会有一点忐忑。
我想,当每一个人即将离开自己熟悉的环境 的时候,心理总是会有一点不安吧?
还好这种不安的情绪不会在我脑海里停留的太久。
虽然很不愿意的把自己形容成甴曱, 但是我还真的觉得我对新环境的适应能力是比甴曱有过之而无不及的!
所以各位 朋友不必为我太担心。

趁着新年期间的空闲,我特地为此行程作了一些准备!
我在书橱里找来了小时候看过的一些书,里面有美术工艺的书籍,应用简单的材料就可以学做一些特别的小卡片,相信小朋友们会喜欢。
与此同时,我还学了一两手扑克牌小魔术, 希望可以借此快速的和 小朋友们拉近关系!
其间,我约见了一位曾经到过尼泊尔当义工的网友见面(在此暂称他为酷man),借由从他口中得知了很多有关当地的相关资料。 酷man 还很用心的制作了一个有关大宝森节的slide show, 让我带过去给小孩子看看, 让他们认识马来西亚 兴都教徒的庆典。

大致上已经万事俱备,还有两天的时间就要起程了,大家准备好了吗??
希望你能够通过我的部落格,看到一个不一样的尼泊尔!

套一句朋友捎过来的话
勇敢地去尼泊尔
然后安全的回家!
(朋友还很有心得为我下载了李佳薇的勇敢和回家的mp3! 感谢大家无论是精神上 还是行动上的支持!!)

创意卡设计和扑克牌游戏!

整装待发

Thursday, January 20, 2011

给孩子们的一点心意

朋友送给我,要带去尼泊尔的颜色笔和几何用具。
Colour studio set donated by friend. Will bring over to the kids in Nepal
更多的颜色笔和书本。
More Colour pencil and learning books for the kids.
这些识字卡片有让你想起你小时候学习的情景吗?
Did those learning card remind u when u learn your first word?

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Please "Like" Me

Recently, I gain some feedback from friends who couldn't understand Chinese, complaining that they couldn't undestand my blog. I appologise for that.
As I had make myself clear that I would like to keep majority of my writing in Chinese, which I am more comfortable with, I will try my best to cover both English and Chinese if possible.
One of the thing that I've done to resolve this issue is to create my Page in Facebook.
As day goes by, I will upload more photos  with what I see and experience in Nepal.
I believe picture tells a thousand words!
I will have wifi acess from the Umbrella Foundation Office during working hour.
So i plan to walk to the office daily to upload some photos and thoughs into my Page thro my iPhone.
In this case, we will still stays close to each other and you will have the chance to see  my lunch, the moment i spent with the kids and also the street look on Kathmandu.
So, please do not hestitate to "Like" my page and i will try my best to keep u updated !
Note: To Like my page;
Please click the button on the right hand site of my Blogspot under  " Follow me on My Facebook"
Lets travel together  and expereince the beauty of Nepal!

快点来“Like“ 我吧!!

为了让大家可以更容易的跟随我的脚步, 一起出发去尼泊尔,
我打算把你们都装在我的裤袋里,一起出发去!
哈哈哈!怎么说呢?
其实,我昨晚特地为我的部落格开了一个面子书的Page.(Page 名叫:双鱼的出走)
只要你们”Like”  我的Page 那么你们就可以马上阅读到我每一次更新的资料。
在面子书的Page里,我可以随时随地的upload 照片,比如我的午餐,我与孩童们的互动 及尼泊尔街道上的情景。
和Umbrella Foundation的负责人谈过,UF  的办公室会有wifi,
所以我打算每天不定时的走到办公室,用我的iphone上载那些我所遇见, 新奇和有趣的 见闻, 第一时间和大家分享分享!
由于现在我每天还是可以很方便的用电脑上载文章到我的部落格,所以我的Page 暂时可能没有那么happening,
但是一旦出发了,我想我要到每一个星期的dayoff  才有机会更新我的部落格。
为了不要让大家失望,我希望可以通过面子书的Page keep 大家updated.
这么一来,认识的和不认识的朋友都可以通过我的Page,用你们的眼睛更我一起体会和游玩尼泊尔!
事不宜迟,赶快”like” 我的Page 吧!
你可以click 我放在部落格的右手边的链接,
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未来三个月的家

箭头的所在点,就是我未来三个月会住的地方。
看起来离市中心并不太远!

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Thank You for Your Generosity

Englsih Version: 
Happy New Year to you all!
Thank you so much for all the generous donation to my fund raising for the Nepal Orphanage.
The purpose of this  is to let you know more about my planning and where the money goes to.
   
The organization that I had chosen to work with is called The Umbrella Foundation.
 
Umbrella has focused on rescuing, housing, and educating trafficked and destitute children. The current capacity is 325 children, living in 8 houses. Now that the civil war is over, Umbrella is focusing on reuniting the children with their families when conditions permit or, when reunification is not possible, providing them the education and vocational skills they need to ensure they can find gainful employment when they become adults. By focusing on this latter stage of the cycle now, The Umbrella Foundation can endeavour to restart the cycle and rescue more conflict-displaced children, whose number is now estimated at 30,000.
 
The reason for me choosing this Small Organization other than the world well known organization eg World Vision or United Nation is because I feel that the money I raised will go to the children directly rather than to be used to maintain and run the  organization. 
 
Umbrella is financed entirely by donations, child sponsors and fundraisers hosted all over the world. Umbrella request the volunteers to fund raise a minimum of €1000 before coming to Umbrella. This €1000 will cover the living expenses while living with Umbrella; accommodation in the volunteer's house for three months, two meals a day, programme running costs and expenses for the Saturday activities. It will also cover the cost of caring for one child for an entire year! (Umbrella spends ~€750 per child every year).
 
As the amount of my funding is exceeding the requested minimum fee (€1000), I am planning to donate some money to another organization named Maiti Nepal .
 
MAITI Nepal was born out of a crusade to protect Nepali girls and women from crimes like domestic violence, trafficking for flesh trade, child prostitution, child labor and various forms of exploitation and torture.
The Maiti Nepal rescue and rehabilitation center has helped over 12,000 enslaved and abused girls and women since the early 1990s
(For More Info, Website: http://www.maitinepal.org/pages.php?option=About%20Us)
 
As the founder and director of Maiti Nepal , Anuradha Koirala, won the CNN Heroes for the year 2010 previously she had received the Courage of Conscience Award from The Peace Abbey in Sherborn , Massachusetts on August 25, 2006.
 
Once again, Thank you so much for your generosity!
I wouldn't had make it to this far without your support and encouragement! 
Looking forward to share more information soon!

人间有大爱

2011 年才刚开始,我就感觉到四周洋溢着浓浓的爱心!
善款数目直线飙升,比我预期中的反应还要热烈许多!  
我非常非常感谢大家那么的支持和相信我!
在这里,我必须交代一下这些所筹得善款的去向。

原本我只是集中在Umbrella Foundation 这一家孤儿院
(详情请看: http://www.umbrellanepal.org/index.php?reloaded=true 或者我之前的一些相关文章)

但是现在的善款已经超越了所定的目标,我打算挪出一部分, 转捐 给另一个慈善团体Maiti Nepal.

 尼泊尔孩童人口贩卖是很严重的。很多贩卖人口的人会到尼泊尔山区游说那些没有受过教育的父母把小女孩交托给他们,让他们带孩子们出城里工作,其实,这些女孩子就这样被 卖入火坑里当雏妓.

自1990 年开始,MN 已经参与解救和收容了超过12000 名小女孩,提供了这些小女孩学习的机会,好让他们长大以后可以有一技之长。

Maiti Nepal 的创办人 Ms Anuradha Koirala, 是2010 年CNN Heroes 的得奖者。

由于Maiti Nepal 也坐落在加德满都, 所以我打算利用 我休假的期间,到访Maiti Nepal , 看看有些什么可以帮忙. 然后再向大家报告那里的状况!

谢谢你们,

你们的支持让我非常的感动! ,也给了我勇敢往前走的动力!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

小小绵力, 大大爱心

很高兴接到一些朋友的来信,想要知道多一点关于我尼泊尔之行的筹款详情。
在此,非常谢谢大家那么热心!
我想我有责任让大家知道所筹到的款项将会有怎么样的用途。
以下是我了解到的一些资料。

Umbrella is financed entirely by donations, child sponsors and fundraisers hosted all over the world. We now ask volunteers to fund raise a minimum of €1000 before coming to Umbrella. This €1000 will cover your living expenses while living with Umbrella; accommodation in the volunteer's house for three months, two meals a day, programme running costs and expenses for the Saturday activities. It will also cover the cost of caring for one child for an entire year! Asking volunteers to fund raise before coming on the programme has many benefits for the overall organisation:

- Raises enough money to care for one child for one year (Umbrella spends ~€750 per child
every year)
- Covers the cost of the volunteer programme
- Raises awareness of the situation and needs in Nepal
- Raises Umbrella's network of supporters
- We feel that the programme should not cost the volunteer; they are giving their valuable time.

更多详情,请参阅以下网址:
http://www.umbrellanepal.org/insidepage.php?mainmenu=46&submenu=62

除了金钱以外,我也开始着手收集一些旧的小孩子衣服,当中,UF 要求 :

Materials for the children such as art materials, children's clothes and teacher's manuals are very much appreciated and are a great help. In particular children's underwear, socks and boys trousers are appreciated.

所以如果大家家里有一些二手的孩子衣服,可以转交给我带过去。我现在正在与航空公司接洽,看可不可以多给我一点的baggage allowance,好让我可以把东西带过去。与此同时,我有几位朋友也说他们可以把收集到的衣服和玩具邮寄到尼泊尔给我。

那么,就让我们有钱出钱,有力出力,精神上的支持也是很欢迎的(你们的留言和鼓励)!!!
再一次的谢谢大家!

我的Maybank Account: 112017538536 (Yap Shang Seen)
请你们在转账后,一定要告诉我你的名字和捐款数目。
我会一一的在募捐表格上填上你的资料。
过后,请继续留意我的部落格,我会尽我可能,让大家知道我们小小的绵力到底可以发挥出什么样的变化?!



Wednesday, December 15, 2010

谢谢你!太感动了!



由于这次的义工 之行 是完全出自于 自费的, 所以 我 第一个要考虑的就是经费。
我选择Umbrella Foundation的 其中一个因素, 是应为他是一个规模比较小的 NGO, 简单化的管理,让 我相信所筹到的捐款会直接让孩子们受益。
UF 要求 每一个义工 至少筹募 一千欧元 的经费, 当中包含的是750 欧元是给一个 孩子一年的生活费, 250欧元 是我的住宿费和伙食费。
再加上我的机票RM 2.2k , 我一共需要 大约 RM8k 的经费。
UF 其实给了我很多 筹募经费(Fund Raising) 的点子, 比如 义卖会 或者Pub Quiz, 无奈这些方式都只适用与西方国家, 在马来西亚是比较难实行的。

2010 年 12 月15日晚上, 当我如常的在家 上网, 一位很久没有联络的中学同学 突然msn 我, 问我需不需要 sponsor。
他居然因为读了我的部落格, 自动联系我, 想要赞助我一些义工经费!!!!
这是一位与我同班六年, 认识了20 年的中学老朋友, 他很慷慨的想要捐出一些钱给孤儿院!
他还很有心的找了我几天, 为的就是要问我是不是需要赞助?! 是不是很感动?!!
他 告诉 我说, 他不能够出力, 但是他可以出钱!
他还说, 如果到了出发的日子 还 筹不到应有的数目, 让我告诉他, 他还可以尽量再想办法!
我真的很高兴他那么有心! 也不枉我一路坚信 人间还是有很多很多温情 的!
来吧! 5 块 10 块 也好, 多多益善, 少少无 拘!!
有心的话, 电邮我吧!

Thursday, December 2, 2010

下一步的计划

对于我要去当义工的举止,我得到了很多朋友的支持。 当中, 有的赞我勇敢,有的说我替他们圆了梦,有的说我活脱脱 像是一个只有在小说里出现的人物。 其实,你们也太抬举了我了,这不是一件什么了不起的事情,可能只是因为现在的我幸运的拥有了天时,地利和人和的配合,让我可以暂时放下手头上的一切,随性的出走一段日子而已。

当然,当中我也有听到负面的回应,讽刺地说我是不是嫌钱多没处花,自找苦吃, 对生活不认真 逃避现实。对于这些回应, 我只是一笑置之。 道不同, 不相为谋, 我没有很多闲钱( 相信我), 但是我认为这趟旅程是值得的。 我没有对生活不认真,只不过是 我们对 生活的意义有着不厢同的定义而已。

收到了 UF 的回复后, 心里开始盘算接下来的计划。 首先, 必须要确定 出发的日期。 原本打算在我生日之后出发 (因为真的不想又一个人孤孤单单的在国外过生日了。。。)。 但是 由于我已经很奢侈的挪出了 2011 年的上半年 来完成我的愿望, 我希望可以在2011 年的下半年赶紧收拾好心情, 好让生活重回轨道。所以我想尽快的出发, 不要白白的浪费时间。

另一方面, 也在计划着 一个两个星期的尼泊尔东西走透透 行程,让我在 完成了于UF的工作后, 也可以尽情的看看这富有浓厚神秘色彩而又美丽的 尼泊尔国度。

由于尼泊尔6月尾开始会是雨季, 这将会影响到我的行程。 我希望可以赶在雨季前 完成我的行程, 所以行程就敲定了在农历新年后出发!!!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

第一次的接触

秉持着心中那点点的星星之火, 我开始搜集起有关UF的资料。

UF是由一名叫Viva Bell 的爱尔兰女作家兼老师在2005年成立的。

在短短的5年里,UF已经由原本的一间孤儿院,扩展到现有的8 间孤儿院。

在这里,326 名无家可归的小孩 得到了一个可以为他们遮风挡雨和 三餐温饱的地方。

在这个之前,很多小孩子都只可以在路上行乞,过着今天不知明天事的日子。

可想而知,他们的未来会是多么的灰暗!

现在,被安置在UF的小孩子不但可以学习到群体生活和纪律;还被安排到附近的小学上学,为的是希望可以培养出一些对国家和社会有贡献的栋梁!


另一边厢的我, 工作上的 矛盾一而再的发生, 接二连三的不满和埋怨让我清楚知道, 这不是我想要的工作方式,再做下去 也 没啥意思。

经过几番的财政预算,2010 10 18 日,我 在UF website application form 上,勇敢的(至少 是这样认为的) 填上了我的 名字。 怀着忐忑不安的心情, 一方面希望他们会接受我,另一方面又担心豁出去后的生活会是个怎样 情形? 心里想的东西越来越多,脑袋也被自己不安的情绪搞的迷糊了。

两天后 热心的负责人 给我捎来 一连串的资料。 当中,UF 重复的要求我考虑是否是一个适合的人选,是否有充分的心理准备去面对那里的环境和挑战。 他们的审核书里甚至附上了很多为什么要去那里当义工的原因, 让我有机会清楚的找出我想要去那里原因。 他们要求我谨慎的思考,然后再回复他们有关我的 决定。

用了 一个星期的时间,反复不停的思考, 我回复了UF 我告诉他们, I am well prepared and ready for the challenge!

Monday, November 29, 2010

结束和开始

架起了圣诞树,2010 年的十二月又在不知不觉中降临了。很多人忙于回顾自己在过去的一年, 完成了几个年初设下的目标,又做错了那几个令人遗憾的决定。我呢?

2010 年对于我来讲,其实真的是一个没有什么好值得 怀念和骄傲的地方。我甚至可以称2010年为我人生的低潮年。霉运总是接二连三, 毫无间断的向我涌过来。使我一直 在窒息的边缘苟且偷生, 情绪也跌到史无前历的谷底。

就在那奄奄一息, 觉得人生完全没有希望的时候,我清楚知道,如果不要溺毙,我必须要自救! 我不能够再这样毫无目的 浪费我的时间!经过几经挣扎和努力的把自己组织起来, 我尝试去找一些我喜欢的活动,好比画画, 写作,甚至想过要重新学习我放下已久的钢琴, 好让自己的精神有一点寄托。尽管如此, 我还是觉得我缺少了一个 目标, 一个我可以令我盼望和专注前进的目标。

2010 年的9 月, 我无意中看到了一篇 关于一名志工到 尼泊尔的孤儿院帮忙的 文章。 小孩子天真无邪的样子, 深深的打动了我的心,加上那名志工在他的文章里生动的描述了他的经验和体会。 霎那间, 我感觉到我的心逐渐的燃起了小小的 火苗, 我逼切的渴望知道更加多 有关于 到尼泊尔做义工的资料, 于是 马上 电邮了 那名志工追问详情。

就是这样, 我认识了 这个 尼泊尔的非 政府组织 (NGO) Umbrella Foundation (以下简称UF)UF 尼泊尔首都 加德满都 拥有8 家孤儿院, 每一家孤儿院收留了大约20 30 名孤儿。 这些孤儿 都是 因为 尼泊尔之前的 内战 而与家人失散, 或者是 被不法之徒从山上拐带到城市里贩卖人口的。 当他们被救起之后, 就会 被寄放在UFUF 除了照顾这些小孩, 他们也 收集小孩的资料,然后翻山越岭的到深山里, 尝试帮忙这些小孩 他们的家人。

几经的资料搜查,一可按耐不住的心,开始蠢蠢欲动了。

Umbrella Foundation Website:

http://www.umbrellanepal.org/?reloaded=true